
I woke up in my bed today. For the first time. In my first house. Wow. Usually, I just get up, do my Ray Lewis pre-game dance, and go about getting ready for the day. Not today. I just kinda sat there and reflected on my life at the present, things of the past, and tried to look forward to the future.
For those that dont know, I just purchased my first home. A 4 bdr, 2.5 bath place with damn near every upgrade in the book. Upgraded tile floors in every bathroom, as well as the kitchen and entry way? Check. Granite countertops in the kitchen? Check. Stainless steel appliances? You better know it. Gas stovetops, upgraded carpet and banisters, and more. I live in a place that under normal circumstances, I cant afford. The fact that this place wound up on the market is a blessing. The fact that my real estate guy is cool with the real estate guy who's area it was in...dumb luck. But how bout this? He called my real estate guy and told him about this place as we were going out to look for potential homes. Said this place wont be on the market for long. He was right. We LUCKILY got the first bid in...six more followed w/i a week.
Also, it rained a little during the move. Not sure how common it is but I was taught that this can be considered a blessing as well. Kinda similarly to as its explained here, although I'm not Jewish.
I digress. The house is a blessing, in and of itself, but thats not the blessing I'm writing about today. I'm blessed, and or lucky, for a lot of reasons but the one that hits me the most often is simply, the people I know. I've been really blessed to be able to surround myself with people that are of an extremely high caliber. I had so much help moving this weekend that I was quite frankly taken a little aback by it. We all know that moving is a CHORE. My friends jumped at the chance to help me. I'm blessed to know them. They are ALL high quality people. Every single person that I consider a friend is someone I feel lucky to know. My old college roommate and his family drove 400 miles to come help me move this weekend. Kids and all (4 and 2). Helped me re-key my place and install blinds as well. What do you say to that? How do I repay something like that? Thats love. I can only hope that I can be as good a friend to them as they are to me. In fact, they are beyond friends. They are family. They are a blessing.
And I CANT leave out the horsemen. College friends that became fam that I know will stand on my side forever. It is an honor to know them. Its a privelege to know that we'll always be friends, regardless of time zone, dialect, and whatever else that normally makes a friendship falter. That will never happen with us. There's a lot of things in this world and economy that you CANT be sure of. Its a relief to know that there's some things that you can be. Shout out to two of my horsemen: EsQPrez & Dallas Black.
I grew up an only child. But some days...it feels like I have the most family of all. And for that, I am TRULY blessed.

16 comments:
This touched me. You are a very blessed, lucky man to have such great friends. Congratulations on the home, sir! Now...can you get back to entertaining me? You've been giving me attitude for weeks!
Aww, that's awesome. Look at you getting all smushy-mushy! I've never witnessed this side of you before. It's kinda...creepy!! lol
just kidding (not really)
Congratulations on the new digs; I'll be waiting for my housewarming invite :D
@Reina
Thank you! Attitude? Me? gasp!
@Jaded
This is like those 2pac albums that are all thug life but then has a Dear Mama type song somewhere. *Palin wink*
Congrats Rad Man!
@vick
Thanks!
Congrats on the house! Sounds amazing!!!
Also, a wise person once told me that a person that is blessed to be surrounded by so many good people is not lucky. . . it's a direct relationship to that person's goodness.
My guess is that your friends are blessed to have you in their lives, too!
Awww...! ^_^
CONGRATS, by the way!!! How awesome! GRANITE kitchen countertops? I am more than jealous! ^_~
@illini
Thanks! I appreciate your saying that.
@gummy
Thanks! You're also more than invited. I still have to come see YOUR place!
Congratualations, and you definitely are blessed for the friends that you have.
And, it also is a reflection of your being a blessing to those friends, that you are a part of their lives.
I'm not hating on the house, but please put up some posts w/o all the videos and ish, and get back to the funniness. jeez, how do you expect me to waste time at work when I can't even view half the crap you put up?
-- Just A Thought
@JAT
Thanks. This twitter business makes me lazy about posting. I need to get with the program.
as one of those friends that is referenced in this post I must say that we are indeed blessed to have and1 in our fold.
I kinda feel like i missed out on something not being able to help you move. I was a bit jealous. lol But I'll be moving into my room soon enough. Holla.
And1,
Congrats on the new crib....Can I claim my room via blogspot and photos (you better post pics soon!)
I'm not a horseman, but those friendships are blessings. And more importantly, it's a blessing to be able to recognize them as such. Many are ungrateful and take friends for granted.
When's the house warming!
@Prez
I appreciate that. You were there in spirit!
@Pharaoh
Thanks! I'm thinking summertime. Might even play some Will Smith. "Everybody come lookin real fine, fresh from the barbershop, fly from the beauty salon..."
Awww! I almost needed some tissue reading this post. Congratulations on the new home. Even though I don't see you nearly as much as I did 8 or 9 years ago, I have to say that you're a true friend and an even better person to know. When I grow up, I wanna be like "and1". I wanna do an "and1grad" pre-game dance in the mornings! (j/k...I'm too cool for that.)
@Kam
LOL...you know you wanna do that dance. I really wish I could be in So Cal more but its tough yo. I should make it down there at least once this year tho!
Wow! I'm all late but DAMN! 4 beds/2.5 baths. I HATE you! You're not anywhere near even trying to have a family and you got all them damn rooms!
No, but on the real, that is mad cool! Congrats! Home ownership is still the dream for me but its great to hear others are doing it. And it sounds like a steel. I must see pics so I can salivate over them and further despise you.
;)
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